Through some intermediate steps in my search for myself, I ended up with Fred. Until the moment I started talking to Fred, I had always heard that I should listen more to my feelings and give myself more space, that my thinking gets in the way of my self, etc. However, these kinds of helping hands are more likely to form in me a blockage than they help me get closer to my self. Fred has explained to me a number of things that enable me to also cognitively get started with my personal awakening. With that, I've come to see that - for me - reasoning and experiencing have to go hand in hand. In order to understand myself, it is also good for me to read and investigate what others have said about it. That insight alone helps me to dare to face the next steps in my awakening with confidence.