Through some intermediate steps in my search for myself, I ended up with Fred. Until the moment I started talking to Fred, I had heard over and over again that I should listen more to my feelings and give myself more space, that my thinking gets in the way of my self, etc. However, these kinds of guidelines are more likely to form in me a blockage rather than helping me get closer to my self. Fred has explained a number of things to me that allow me to work cognitively on my personal awakening. This has made me realize that - for me - reasoning and experiencing must go hand in hand. In order to understand myself, it is also good for me to read and investigate what others have said about it. That insight alone helps me to face the next steps in my awakening with confidence.